The 4th Quarter
Which part of the game are you in? First half of life? The 3rd quarter? OK? How many of you are in the 4th quarter? I have lived more than 3/4 of a century. This is the 4th quarter for me. Pretty scary isn’t it?
As we age, our responsibilities change. For some it is moving their parent into an assisted living facility.
Others find themselves suddenly single or have a mate who is very ill.
These things can make us feel defeated and deflated.
There are many ways to bring yourself back from the edge of depression and despair or just plain boredom.
Even though by the 4th quarter, life has changed. It is possible to reinvent yourself at any age. And you can do this, no matter what the circumstances.
You know why? Because now, you just don’t give a damn what other people think.
My life changed 5 years ago when my Mother began to age at about 97. Gradually she lost her ability to live on her own. I reluctantly gave up my life in Charlottesville to stay with my mother in my old room, in my old house. She is now 101 years old.
And I have turned my life around. It’s fun and exciting to be here. How can we all make the 4th quarter great? There are several ways, but I will mention 2 of them.
Figure out what you can control.
Take a chance on something you always wished to do.
Some people dare to realize a childhood dream.
One older woman who began to take voice lessons a few years ago, starred last Friday night in a
Another way is to become involved. Join things, volunteer, try a new sport, walk or run a 5K race, or learn to play Bridge.
There is so much to do in Washington DC. I decided to do only things that could be done right here. And I set out to make friends. For
Any of you can do this. Turn your life around. Change. Don’t be afraid of the things you thought you would never do. DO THEM! And don’t be surprised if something miraculous happens.
Just as it often is in sports, the 4th quarter of the game of life can turn out to be the best, most exciting one of all.
Go for it!
Copyright 2019 Bonnie B. Matheson